That’s a thoughtful question. South Indian temples are vibrant, living places of worship, and understanding local customs can deeply enrich your experience.
When it comes to dress codes, modesty is key. For both men and women, it’s best to cover your shoulders and knees. Lightweight, breathable fabrics work well in the warm climate—think long skirts, loose trousers, or a kurta-style top. Some temples, such as the Padmanabhaswamy Temple in Kerala, strictly require men to wear a dhoti (no shirts or trousers allowed). Most temples also require visitors to remove their footwear before entering, so wearing slip-on shoes is practical. In some places, men may be asked to remove their shirts when entering the innermost sanctum.
Etiquette-wise, a little mindfulness goes a long way. Always enter the temple with your right foot first as a sign of respect. Avoid pointing your feet toward any deity while sitting, and if you’re invited to receive a blessing or prasad (a small offering like sweets or flowers), accepting it with your right hand is considered polite. Photography is often restricted in sanctum areas, so it’s best to check before capturing any images.
And you’re right that some temples restrict entry to non-Hindus, especially in deeply sacred spaces. However, there are still meaningful ways to experience their beauty. At the Meenakshi Temple in Madurai, for example, the outer corridors and the towering gopurams are open to everyone and are breathtaking in their detail. Brihadeeswarar Temple in Thanjavur, a UNESCO World Heritage site, welcomes all visitors to explore its vast courtyard and marvel at its monumental architecture.
You might enjoy a private walk with a local spiritual scholar who can share stories of temple rituals and symbols or attend an evening aarti (prayer ceremony). In some towns, temple musicians or artisans still practice age-old crafts, and meeting them is a beautiful way to connect with the spirit of the place without stepping inside.
